Ambiguity fuels disputes. Document intent, separate roles, and use scheduled communication to reduce surprise.
Conflict often starts when two relatives remember different versions of a story. Written intent in a dedicated workspace does not solve every dispute — it reduces invented narratives.
Surprises amplify grief. Prefer scheduled, explicit delivery for sensitive topics so timing is predictable.
Software can clarify; it cannot force harmony. Offer mediation or family therapy where relationships are strained.
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